Rebuilding doesn’t have a finish line When I first separated twelve years ago, I thought I knew what rebuilding looked like. I imagined that once I got through the heartbreak, I’d meet someone new. I’d remarry. I’d have that “second chance” kind of story. More aligned, more stable, more me. It didn’t happen that way. I dated immediately, and two years later, I met someone that I wanted to start a serious relationship with. I thought that was progress at the time, but really, I hadn’t stopped...

The unexpected wisdom that came from loving (and losing) after divorce. One of the first things many of us get curious about after a...

You can choose to end a marriage and still carry heartbreak, guilt, and deep sadness. Initiating a divorce comes with its own kind of...